It happens. Brides and grooms plan the “wedding” – usually a general term used to describe the day, not the actual ceremony. A lot of times, the ceremony gets overlooked as a minute detail. This usually means that the officiant/minister/judge is trying to come up with your ceremony without any input from you. If this is the case, your rights to be disappointed have been waived.
I had an Asian couple with unusual (for Americans) first names and single syllable last names. Their officiant had never met them and was flying blind with their expectations. (I will also add that he didn’t appear to be diligent in his own findings to make sure he got it right.)
Halfway through the ceremony, he confused himself as to which name belonged to which person. He stared blindly at his book for what seemed like a long time – honestly, it was probably only 30 seconds that passed, but as dead air, it felt longer. When he finally recovered from that, we all breathed a sigh of relief.
At the end of the ceremony, he invited the groom to kiss the bride and introduced them as Mr. and Mrs. McKenzie… Uh, what happened to the single syllable Asian last name? The bride whispered to him (loud enough for the microphone to capture it), “That’s not our name!” Once again, we got a blank stare and dead air. The bride and groom finally gave up, we started the recessional music and they proceeded back down the aisle.
As we got back inside to sign the marriage license, the officiant did what any red-blooded American man would do… he blamed it on his wife.
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